{"rowid": 261, "title": "Surviving\u2014and Thriving\u2014as a Remote Worker", "contents": "Remote work is hot right now. Many people even say that remote work is the future. Why should a company limit itself to hiring from a specific geographic location when there\u2019s an entire world of talent out there?\nI\u2019ve been working remotely, full-time, for five and a half years. I\u2019ve reached the point where I can\u2019t even fathom working in an office. The idea of having to wake up at a specific time and commute into an office, work for eight hours, and then commute home, feels weirdly anachronistic. I\u2019ve grown attached to my current level of freedom and flexibility.\nHowever, it took me a lot of trial and error to reach success as a remote worker \u2014 and sometimes even now, I slip up. Working remotely requires a great amount of discipline, independence, and communication. It can feel isolating, especially if you lean towards the more extroverted side of the social spectrum. Remote working isn\u2019t for everyone, but most people, with enough effort, can make it work \u2014 or even thrive. Here\u2019s what I\u2019ve learned in over five years of working remotely.\nExperiment with your environment\nAs a remote worker, you have almost unprecedented control of your environment. You can often control the specific desk and chair you use, how you accessorize your home office space \u2014 whether that\u2019s a dedicated office, a corner of your bedroom, or your kitchen table. (Ideally, not your couch\u2026 but I\u2019ve been there.) Hate fluorescent lights? Change your lightbulbs. Cover your work area in potted plants. Put up blackout curtains and work in the dark like a vampire. Whatever makes you feel most comfortable and productive, and doesn\u2019t completely destroy your eyesight.\nWorking remotely doesn\u2019t always mean working from home. If you don\u2019t have a specific reason you need to work from home (like specialized equipment), try working from other environments (which is especially helpful it you have roommates, or children). Cafes are the quintessential remote worker hotspot, but don\u2019t just limit yourself to your favorite local haunt. More cities worldwide are embracing co-working spaces, where you can rent either a roaming spot or a dedicated desk. If you\u2019re a social person, this is a great way to build community in your work environment. Most have phone rooms, so you can still take calls.\nCo-working spaces can be expensive, and not everyone has either the extra income, or work-provided stipend, to work from one. Local libraries are also a great work location. They\u2019re quiet, usually have free wi-fi, and you have the added bonus of being able to check out books after work instead of, ahem, spending too much money on Kindle books. (I know most libraries let you check out ebooks, but reader, I am impulsive and impatient person. When I want a book now, I mean now.) \nJust be polite \u2014 make sure your headphones don\u2019t leak, and don\u2019t work from a library if you have a day full of calls.\nRemember, too, that you don\u2019t have to stay in the same spot all day. It\u2019s okay to go out for lunch and then resume work from a different location. If you find yourself getting restless, take a walk. Wash some dishes while you mull through a problem. Don\u2019t force yourself to sit at your desk for eight hours if that doesn\u2019t work for you.\nSet boundaries\nIf you\u2019re a workaholic, working remotely can be a challenge. It\u2019s incredibly easy to just\u2026 work. All the time. My work computer is almost always with me. If I remember at 11pm that I wanted to do something, there\u2019s nothing but my own willpower keeping me from opening up my laptop and working until 2am. Some people are naturally disciplined. Some have discipline instilled in them as children. And then some, like me, are undisciplined disasters that realize as adults that wow, I guess it\u2019s time to figure this out, eh?\nLearning how to set boundaries is one of the most important lessons I\u2019ve learned working remotely. (And honestly, it\u2019s something I still struggle with). \nFor a long time, I had a bad habit of waking up, checking my phone for new Slack messages, seeing something I need to react to, and then rolling over to my couch with my computer. Suddenly, it\u2019s noon, I\u2019m unwashed, unfed, starting to get a headache, and wondering why suddenly I hate all of my coworkers. Even when I finally tear myself from my computer to shower, get dressed, and eat, the damage is done. The rest of my day is pretty much shot.\nI recently had a conversation with a coworker, in which she remarked that she used to fill her empty time with work. Wake up? Scroll through Slack and email before getting out of bed. Waiting in line for lunch? Check work. Hanging out on her couch in the evening? You get the drift. She was only able to break the habit after taking a three month sabbatical, where she had no contact with work the entire time.\nI too had just returned from my own sabbatical. I took her advice, and no longer have work Slack on my phone, unless I need it for an event. After the event, I delete it. I also find it too easy to fill empty time with work. Now, I might wake up and procrastinate by scrolling through other apps, but I can\u2019t get sucked into work before I\u2019m even dressed. I\u2019ve gotten pretty good at forbidding myself from working until I\u2019m ready, but building any new habit requires intentionality. \nSomething else I experimented with for a while was creating a separate account on my computer for social tasks, so if I wanted to hang out on my computer in the evening, I wouldn\u2019t get distracted by work. It worked exceptionally well. The only problems I encountered were technical, like app licensing and some of my work proxy configurations. I\u2019ve heard other coworkers have figured out ways to work through these technical issues, so I\u2019m hoping to give it another try soon.\nYou might noticed that a lot of these ideas are just hacks for making myself not work outside of my designated work times. It\u2019s true! If you\u2019re a more disciplined person, you might not need any of these coping mechanisms. If you\u2019re struggling, finding ways to subvert your own bad habits can be the difference between thriving or burning out.\nCreate intentional transition time\nI know it\u2019s a stereotype that people who work from home stay in their pajamas all day, but\u2026 sometimes, it\u2019s very easy to do. I\u2019ve found that in order to reach peak focus, I need to create intentional transition time. \nThe most obvious step is changing into different clothing than I woke up in. Ideally, this means getting dressed in real human clothing. I might decide that it\u2019s cold and gross out and I want to work in joggers and a hoody all day, but first, I need to change out of my pajamas, put on a bra, and then succumb to the lure of comfort. \nI\u2019ve found it helpful to take similar steps at the end of my day. If I\u2019ve spent the day working from home, I try to end my day with something that occupies my body, while letting my mind unwind. Often, this is doing some light cleaning or dinner prep. If I try to go straight into another mentally heavy task without allowing myself this transition time, I find it hard to context switch. \nThis is another reason working from outside your home is advantageous. Commutes, even if it\u2019s a ten minute walk down the road, are great transition time. Lunch is a great transition time. You can decompress between tasks by going out for lunch, or cooking and eating lunch in your kitchen \u2014 not next to your computer. \nEmbrace async\nIf you\u2019re used to working in an office, you\u2019ve probably gotten pretty used to being able to pop over to a colleague\u2019s desk if you need to ask a question. They\u2019re pretty much forced to engage with you at that point. When you\u2019re working remotely, your coworkers might not be in the same timezone as you. They might take an hour to finish up a task before responding to you, or you might not get an answer for your entire day because dangit Gary\u2019s in Australia and it\u2019s 3am there right now. \nFor many remote workers, that\u2019s part of the package. When you\u2019re not co-located, you have to build up some patience and tolerance around waiting. You need to intentionally plan extra time into your schedule for waiting on answers.\nAsynchronous communication is great. Not everyone can be present for every meeting or office conversation \u2014 and the same goes for working remotely. However, when you\u2019re remote, you can read through your intranet messages later or scroll back a couple hours in Slack. My company has a bunch of internal blogs (\u201cp2s\u201d) where we record major decisions and hold asynchronous conversations. I feel like even if I missed a meeting, or something big happened while I was asleep, I can catch up later. We have a phrase \u2014 \u201cp2 or it didn\u2019t happen.\u201d\nWorking remotely has made me a better communicator largely because I\u2019ve gotten into the habit of making written updates. I\u2019ve also trained myself to wait before responding, which allows me to distance myself from what could potentially be an emotional reaction. (On the internet, no one can see you making that face.) Having the added space that comes from not being in the same physical location with somebody else creates an opportunity to rein myself in and take the time to craft an appropriate response, without having the pressure of needing to reply right meow. Lean into it!\n(That said, if you\u2019re stuck, sometimes the best course of action is to hop on a video call with someone and hash out the details. Use the tools most appropriate for the problem. They invented Zoom for a reason.)\nSeek out social opportunities\nEven introverts can feel lonely or isolated. When you work remotely, there isn\u2019t a built-in community you\u2019re surrounded by every day. You have to intentionally seek out social opportunities that an office would normally provide.\nI have a couple private Slack channels where I can joke around with work friends. Having that kind of safe space to socialize helps me feel less alone. (And, if the channels get too noisy, I can mute them for a couple hours.)\nEvery now and then, I\u2019ll also hop on a video call with some work friends and just hang out for a little while. It feels great to actually see someone laugh.\nIf you work from a co-working space, that space likely has events. My co-working space hosts social hours, holiday parties, and sometimes even lunch-and-learns. These events are great opportunities for making new friends and forging professional connections outside of work. \nIf you don\u2019t have access to a co-working space, your town or city likely has meetups. Create a Meetup.com account and search for something that piques your interest. If you\u2019ve been stuck inside your house for days, heads-down on a hard deadline, celebrate by getting out of the house. Get coffee or drinks with friends. See a show. Go to a religious service. Take a cooking class. Try yoga. Find excuses to be around someone other than your cats. When you can\u2019t fall back on your work to provide community, you need to build your own.\n\nThese are tips that I\u2019ve found help me, but not everyone works the same way. Remember that it\u2019s okay to experiment \u2014 just because you\u2019ve worked one way, doesn\u2019t mean that\u2019s the best way for you. Check in with yourself every now and then. Are you happy with your work environment? Are you feeling lonely, down, or exhausted? Try switching up your routine for a couple weeks and jot down how you feel at the end of each day. Look for patterns. You deserve to have a comfortable and productive work environment!\nHope to see you all online soon \ud83d\ude4c", "year": "2018", "author": "Mel Choyce", "author_slug": "melchoyce", "published": "2018-12-09T00:00:00+00:00", "url": "https://24ways.org/2018/thriving-as-a-remote-worker/", "topic": "process"}